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Tuesday, December 30, 2008
It's Over.

honestly, im glad its over too.
i never had the courage to tell u how i truly feel.

hui is right,
if a person truly lover another, 
he wouldnt want her to go tru it alone,
whether its tru pain or happiness.

i wouldnt want to become who u wish i will become
coz i wouldnt want to watch one of my fav movie,
A Walk To Remember and stone all the way tru
coz u think we shouldnt be emotional.
and how ironic that
one of the reasons i fall for u bcoz u almost cried for A bridge to Terabithia.

i wouldnt wanna go tru it anymore
if one of ur family member keep making decision for u
or not giving us the blessing.

u can say all u want that we click or watever
but if u cant accept even my smallest flaws and weaknesses
and go tru it with me while im hoping to be a better person.
its just selfish and not a single bit love available.

at the right moment i didnt cried,
im sure u're glad to hear that.
but pain was all over me,
all the good times just fade away 
and left all my regrets. u know wat i meant.

i was too afraid to let go someone close and dear to me
but NO!
i deserve someone who truly love, care and accept the person that i am.
or at least will go tru watever happen or journey with me.

thank u and good bye.
im glad i realize this soon enough,
and for the journey of knowing myself better.

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Sunday, December 28, 2008
Nail Polish.

i had two diff colour (broze gold and shinny blue) of nail polish for the past 2 weeks i think.
and i was trying the new one i bought this noon.

mixing the old shinny blue with the new glittery gold.
and i realize how much effort i am putting into this,
(and costing them to finnish so soon aikss)
its been 2 yrs since i ever done nail polish for myself,
(not counting the pedicure ><) so yah.

tmr im meeting my dad,
he doesnt like these kind of thing,
not to mention the colours im putting on lately.

so after putting on the latest colour,
i decided to remove them.

i just washed my hands after done removing them, 
seeing them in front of the mirror, naked.
i guess its time to take a break.

a break from trying my best covering (or making) up.
a break to take a deeeepp breath.
a break for my true self.
and a break for u, my beloved nails.

i swear, i will buy nail care and nail base for all of u. ;)

xoxo from ur dearly.

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2:05 AM




Friday, December 26, 2008
Not as Planned.

sigh, i called mcd's for the 4th time and i still cant get place my order.
freaking hungry now la!!!! arggg...

i told kim i want to fix back my sleeping hours during this 2 months hols
but i guess it wont come true.
in order to talk to him secretly, we both have to stay up awake.

i just bathe two of my kittens
and i find out that i have to squeeze them a lil first before using the towel to dry them.
why? if not 1 towel is not enough for 4.
and also because they are made of fur. -.-

did alot of window shopping online, gonna get them the moment i get my money!!!
but the list is freaking long le.
i hope i will get alot of surveys answered la. haha

gonna get my starbucks before the end of this yr :(
i miss coll already. boohoo

at least i get to sing k tmr!!!
finaallyyy

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Thursday, December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas!

i just heard the fireworks outside my window 
but when i reach out to the window i cant see a single thing.

this is the most uneventful and lonely Christmas i ever had,
even tho i met back alot of old churchmates.
and all my KL methodist mates still think im a methodist member.
yes i was one loyal and faithful member but lefted.
hmm, old memory but good ones. =)

Good news is that i got the job
hopefully people of Malaysia will be really supportive to give feedbacks.
then i can earn more money LOL.

Merry Christmas folks! =)

i wont pray that i could see u tmr,
wont wanna put up my hope,
and blame myself for the disappointment again.

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Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Too Free..

didnt went out yesterday and today..
im the only person among my gal frens that is on hols.
and it suck big time!!

and i finally i got a call from one of the job application that i applied.
pray for me that i'll get the job.
it's super near my coll and i think the pay is not bad too.

take care. xoxo

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Sunday, December 21, 2008
My New Pet!!

woah! just got my new lappy - HP dv4
(sorry susanna i just really don know how to get to k-tar :( )

its for 3,999 with a free 160GB ex-hard disk and another 2 yrs home service!!

loving it, enjoying it, exploring too. feel so noob la first time handling a real vista.

but having prob with izzi driver. hmmp, will fix that soon, so i don have to use the old one to online.
the old one, my dad will bring back to his off to try to get it fixed
and if its back to normal (keypad and sound system), will give it to my second sister.

im not some evil big sister k?
im paying 2k for my new laptop coz i felt bad for my dad when he was counting how much he will have to pay per month if he gets the installment.

but guess wat?
he wanted to get the installment so that if the new laptop got prob he could stop paying on that month and see wat the shop salesman has to say -.-
wow and thr goes for my 2k salary in the future after getting a job.

should have think wisely before i talk (some more i saw it in a book i was reading yesterday night =.=)
but then i was trying to be nice. sigh 2k ah.... fineee pftt

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7:48 PM




By My...

been travel around kl alot lately, today i even went to jln ipoh by cab all alone at night.
after having u as my close one i tend to seek for accompany but since u're not longer by my side, im back to traveling this city of mine alone again.
passing by the city where thr are about a mill ppl living, seeing all their lights turn out, seeing klcc and kl tower lights blinking, cars surrounding me that might be going to the same destination with me in the highway, traveled half the city in one day and back to my room.
all i want to be at is with u and hope to see u around when i get back home by my side.

i miss u badly.

its been a month and also a week since i last saw u.

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Friday, December 19, 2008
The Perfect Ending?

wow~   i went out the whole day and just got back!!
haha cant rmb when was the last time i had this much fun.
even tho in the middle thr are some communication prob ><
but overall i enjoyed. 

meet up with Kang Yee, a super old fren,
the last time we met was 3 years ago.

ok, i went to coll at 8.45am,
event ended at 3pm and also the perfect ending of sem 2
then went to 1u with kim, cayman and arashi for late lunch,
had at BBQ chicken (love their food, service is much better now! and way faster too).   then shopping. while shopping around he called.

rejected him a few times, so even tho im tired and suppose to teman my babies but i agreed to go out with him. (but then i found out that he kinda lie to me to get me out -.-)
t cut the story short, some communication prob were here and thr but the meeting up with him bought back alot of memories. i'll keep the rest to myself =)

talked to Woon Hui in the car for 2hrs on the journey to cheras and back.
we shared wat we went tru lately and i think we both growth up too
and knowing that we both gotta love ourselves more. this caught me thinking
wanna chat and update more but need to go d, hui got to work tmr.

well this is the rough idea what i had for today.
will wanna go watch movies, shopping and yam cha more!!!
tmr gonna clean up my notes and my room, spend more time with my babies too.
it's late and i'm tired so sweet dreams! 


PS: the song preformed in the event is GOOD!

PS: i was disappointed to not see ur reply. i tot u would after not able to contact me for 4 days. i wanted to go back and check my inbox so badly...... sorry that i called, i got worried.

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1:22 AM




Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Two months Holiday!! ;)

im still stress about my paper.
section B i only answer one out of ten which total all is 20 marks.
essay got two came out but i missed out some points here and thr T.T
so most probably will resit for paper.  
but alot also like gg.com too

but this time i got ULTIMATE SERECT WEAPON !!
Shing! 

LOL haha by you.
i said it but i'll say it again,
thanks in ad.


went to 'face to face' for dinner,
ps: while walking from coll bumped in nelson
and of coz we ordered pan face mee (its was typo at first but i'll let it be ;) )
wanted to ask sean to go kota's chili pan mee one
but scare will jam then cause cayman to be late for church meeting ><
instead we went to 'look into my face' and eat.

with the price of rm5.3 yes, student budget. its dec la and the noodle etc
the only thing that beat down chili's is the soup.
hmm ok la the interoir design is way nicer. 
and more range of other food & beverage. fair enough? sowat by you.

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tmr is the last day of my sem two and it's gonna end with an event! pleased by you.

if anyone of u wanna come u'll need to me know before the event kick start.
isn't it cool to end a stressful and ah-hem productive sem like this?

and shing planningd a trip to kampar
3 days 2 nights on 27,28,29. (not comfirm)
a few of our beloved lecturers are coming too. 
it will be about 60 for 2 nights
but we need cars, if u got car even better. =)


my babies are all meowing for attention d,
been neglested since..... i cant rmb bummed by you.
but i got a feeling they are meowing for somthing else  
we'll see about that. 
till then

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10:52 PM




Exam in 1 hour and an half time!

and wat is miss Li Her going right now?
blogging T.T i know, tsk tsk right?

but hey, im trying my best to study la k?
hmm let me entertain u guys with psychology theories! (sounds very INTERESTING huh?) -.-
*long post ahead, read at own risk*

Piaget's
key conpepts - 
schemas, assimilation, accomodation and equilibration.

1. Sensorimotor Stage of Cognitive :-
- Reflxes
- Primary circular reactions
- Secondary circular reactions 
(more focus to the world, will intentionly repeat an action)
- Coordination of reactions 
(clearly intentional actions, combine schemas to create a desire effect)
- Tertiary circular reactions 
(trial and error)
- Early representatinal  thought 
(understanding the world thorught mental operations)

2. Preoperational Stage of Cognitive Development
-age 2 to 6
-still cant understand logic, unable to take point of view
- adapt to using symbols, prepending and playing
Egocentrism
- having difficulty when asked to present point of view of others

Conservatin
- very lazy to type this but i understand 

3. Concrete Operational Stage :-
- age 7 to 11
- gain better understanding of mental operations 
- but have difficulty understandind abstracr
Logic
- good at inductive logic
- diffculty using deductive

Reversibility
- aware that actoin can ve reversed

4. The Formal Operational Stage
- age 12 might last to adulthood
- develop the ability to think about abstract concepts
- logical thought and deductivbe reasoning
Logic
- deductive logic needs hyoithetical

Abstact Thought
- begin to consider possible outcome
- its important in long-term planning

Problem Solving
- the ability to solve a prob in logical and methodical appears
- often able to quickly plan an organizs approach 

just bear with me la, now very stress!!
im trying another way to do revision...

Heinz's case - Kohlberg
Preconventional
1. punishment (scare)
2. individual (selfishness) i'll pick this for heinz

Conventional
1. interpernal relationship 
(feel for ppl in the 'good' ways) and this for the law. ah ya, just crap lo. 
2. maintaining social order (by law)

Postconventional
1. social contrat & individual right
2. global

Freud's
- oral
- anal = bladder & bowel movement
- phallic = 
  Oedipus (boy view dad as a rival for mom and wish to replace dad LOL)
  Electra (girl might experience penis envy WTH?? wth by you. )
- latent  = sexual energy present but directed to social interations
- genital = strong sexual interest on opp sex, 
start to compare will the welfare of others growth


all above are the main ones, pray hard they will come out for essay.
the rest just here and thr.
im so counting on eassy right now!!! 
or else i'll die!!!!

gtg, wanna go coll and check how is the rest doing.
don mind all the grammar and spelling mistakes la, no time d. ><

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1:24 PM




Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Ish! How to fix my time back?

i cant fix my time in my cbox and apply time to all my post!! grumble by you.
any of u know how to, do let me know ya!
many thanks!

been spending hrs editing my blog, aiks
i need to study for my psycho paper!!
but i really don like la this sub... bummed by you.

but THANK GOD, i very smart!
i photocopy rach's notes.
its much easier to understand.
but so how i wish i could turn back time so i could had studied more. ishh...

tips i get from Lizzie.

John Piaget - Infancy
Lawrence Theory of Moral Development
-> Freud;s psychology cause - with Heinz dilemma => more essay focused
-> Parenting (mayb)


off to my notes for now. :( pftt..
*scream from the bottom of my heart ' I DON WANT!!! '*
my babies are all napping, how i wish i could too...


ps: i hope u're gonna be ok up in genting.

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Monday, December 15, 2008
New Chapter babe!

crap! i actually created this new blog on the midnight before a paper~
Jumper just jumped in to hint mommy not to do so anymore by *walking* by the key pads, giving mommy random words.. :S

i'm so smart tried to study and cover all chapter for my PR paper,
and when i reach coll like 8.50am,
Jc told me 'don hav to study all, just cover about 6 will do.'
sh*t why didnt i think of that??!!
so my last question was all crap crap crap and more crapping...
due to brain cells overly damaged


i know i tried too hard.. but i'll learn my lesson.
it's just part of life, so deal with it!
JUST DON FAIL ME!!


i'll start this new,
whole differently... because it's a new start. =)


silly patch playing with himself while the rest are all napping
good night my babies.

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